Do you have a plan, a strategy? Do you know what is the worst thing you can do, and what is the best thing you can do, to keep alive the chance that you can get your lost love back?
Having him break up with you was the worst thing you could have ever imagined and the last thing you ever expected, but it happened anyway. After your initial shock, what was the first thing you did? Whatever it was, it probably was not the best thing you could have done. In fact, whatever you did probably only made things worse.
We’ve all been there and done that. We scream, we cry, we throw things, and then we go into “rabid stalker mode”, leaving constant text messages and voice-mail messages and, dare we admit it, even spend a little more time than we should spying on him or just happening to hang out in places we know he is likely to show up at.
Of course, you know in your heart that you are not helping your cause by behaving this way. Acting desperate, or even a little crazy, will only convince him that you are not the one for him and that he made the right decision in leaving you behind. But, how can you handle it any differently when your whole world has been turned upside down and you absolutely cannot think of anything other than trying to patch up your relationship and get back together with him?
Whatever you did when he gave you the line, “It’s not you, honey, it’s me. I just need a little space right now. So, I really think we should break up,” was probably not the best thing you could have done. What you should have done, and what would have made it almost certain that he would come back to you begging your forgiveness, was to AGREE WITH HIM. That’s right, you should have said, “Gee, darling, I hate to admit it, but I think you are absolutely right. We do need some time apart, so let’s just go our separate ways and see how it goes.”
I know, that doesn’t make intuitive sense, but it works. But, what if it is too late, and you have already gone way past the opportunity to do it right from the outset? Well, it is not too late. There are specific things you can do to save your relationship. But, you have to plan carefully and do everything right.
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