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HOW CAN YOU TELL IF YOUR EX WANTS TO GET BACK WITH YOU ?
Do you find yourself asking “does my ex want to get back with me”? Is this just wishful thinking on your part, because you can’t seem to forget all the great times you had together, or are you seeing real signs that he has not lost his feelings for you? Does he call you for no particular reason or show up at your favorite lunch spot like he is hoping you will be there, too?
If you notice he is starting to flirt with you or pay more attention to you, these are common signs that your ex might want you back. But, you should not simply jump into things. At first, you should play a little hard to get, but don’t overdo it and drive him off. He will probably respond to you best if you make him think you are not a sure thing any more. If you act too eager, then you may find your ex pushing you away again. In fact, if he is giving indications that he wants you back, it could be that it was you playing hard to get that got him interested again in the first place.
It is only natural following a breakup for both of you to have feelings of emptiness and missing each other. If you find yourself thinking about old times and constantly being reminded of him by sights and smells you encounter every day, it is likely that he is having similar feelings. This is especially true if your relationship was more than a year old before it came crashing down. You had become important parts of each other’s lives and that is hard to just turn your back on.
But, be careful not to over-interpret your ex boyfriend’s behavior towards you. It may be that he is just playing his old games with you since he knows you so well. He may be just having a good time being with you, but has no intention of getting back into a serious relationship. It may be that he just hasn’t found someone yet to take your place. He may be trying to get back at you for something he hasn’t quite forgiven, or he may feel guilty about his own past behavior and hopes to make up for it. So, tread lightly at first and don’t try to rush into a renewed relationship with him. If he is genuinely interested in you, he will have the patience to take things slowly.
There is nothing wrong with asking yourself if your ex boyfriend is sending you signals that he really wants you back. Go slowly and think these through before you plunge back into a serious thing with him. Read How Do I Get My Boyfriend Back? for even more insights on how you take things from here.